July 18, 2024

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Don’t be afraid to journey post-pandemic: The world is much less harmful than you suppose

Don’t be afraid to journey post-pandemic: The world is much less harmful than you suppose

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Once I advised associates in India I had bought a flight to Sri Lanka, I used to be met with apprehensive faces.

“Do you know the nation is experiencing a monetary meltdown? Aren’t there mass protests? It isn’t secure!” they warned.

My household in the US was apprehensive as nicely. A Google seek for “Sri Lanka” will inevitably result in tales of civil warfare and 2019 terrorist assaults.

I understood their issues, however I used to be set on browsing the tropical seashores of Sri Lanka’s south coast throughout my year-and-a-half solo journey overseas. I used to be satisfied I’d be superb.

And, regardless of our human intuition to latch onto destructive information — notably post-pandemic — my expertise touring to 25 international locations (and counting) has taught me the world is usually safer than we’re led to imagine. It’s all about measured threat.

I found this to be true in Sri Lanka.

Skimboarding led Evan Quarnstrom to new friends in Melaque, Mexico.

Skimboarding led Evan Quarnstrom to new associates in Melaque, Mexico.

(Through Evan Quarnstrom)

Once I arrived in Sri Lanka and took my first steps on the streets of the nation’s capital, Colombo, life regarded … regular. There have been no riots. The air was humid and heavy, however individuals nonetheless wearing enterprise apparel (seemingly oblivious to the way it sticks to your pores and skin) and rushed to downtown jobs. Others stood in line for espresso and pastries whereas rickshaws swerved and honked by visitors. A mixture of temples, mosques and church buildings was sprinkled throughout Colombo, which gave me a primary glimpse into the range of cultures that decision this port metropolis dwelling.

Within the seashore village of Madiha, which I’ve known as dwelling for 2 months, life is sluggish and enjoyable. Folks wave as you stroll previous. Children collect within the afternoon to play cricket on the lazy streets. My host household repeatedly presents me free meals — my new favourite is a Sri Lankan breakfast of coconut roti and dhal.

I collect with surfers within the mornings; we bob over sea turtles and coral reefs within the crystal-clear waters. One man even supplied me a free night time in his luxurious beachfront rental, just because we had a mutual good friend.

There’s a disparity between the image painted of the nation overseas and the truth.

Whereas it’s true Sri Lanka suffered a long time of civil warfare and, extra not too long ago, is recovering from a monetary and political disaster, not as soon as have I felt unsafe. Sri Lankans are overwhelmingly heat, pleasant individuals. They’ve welcomed me, even serving to me be taught their language, Sinhala. On one memorable event, after I received misplaced on a dust street and pulled over to ask for instructions, a person repeatedly thanked me for coming to Sri Lanka, regardless of the shortages of drugs, gasoline and different commodities, inflation and the U.S. journey advisories which have deterred many vacationers.

American worry of journey overseas predates the pandemic. However three years of pandemic information and quarantine have exacerbated these doubts, making many cautious of exposing themselves to the broader world. There may be even a phrase for this. It’s known as “reentry anxiousness” and in line with the American Psychological Affiliation, it’s affecting almost half of American adults.

One method to counter this worry is to leap again in. While you make the transition from unknown to recognized, fears typically vanish.

That transition additionally occurred to me in different “harmful” international locations like Brazil and Mexico.

I spent six months in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. Earlier than leaving, I knew concerning the metropolis’s infamous, violent fame. Many Brazilians even warned me to not go.

Hiking in Rio, despite friends' fears about crime and safety.

Climbing in Rio, regardless of associates’ fears about crime and security.

(Through Evan Quarnstrom)

However in Rio, I found one of the vital wonderful, vibrant, culturally wealthy cities on this planet. I spent 4 months in Rio and never as soon as did I’ve any destructive security experiences. I frolicked browsing, listening to vigorous avenue music, consuming scrumptious meals, and attending to know a inhabitants of lively individuals who benefit from the open air, just like my associates in Santa Cruz and California.

I used to be cautious, sure. However I additionally didn’t let my fears information me.

And in Mexico, a rustic clouded by journey advisories and cartel wars, I’ve found quaint little cities the place individuals depart their doorways unlocked and youngsters play on the street at night time. I’ve visited mountain villages the place older women and men put together conventional dishes whereas conversing in Indigenous languages and coastal cities the place browsing and fishing rule the locals’ sluggish lifestyle. In some areas, I’ve seen ranges of security I’d be laborious pressed to search out again dwelling within the U.S.

Westerners, we People particularly, are inclined to have a glamorized, overly optimistic opinion of our nation. Generally it’s essential to understand these exaggerated fears we would harbor are unfounded. Actually, individuals dwelling overseas might need these exact same perceptions about our nation.

“You’re from the U.S.? There are loopy individuals with weapons and mass shootings, proper?” overseas associates have requested me. “Why are there so many homeless individuals? Don’t you care about one another?”

Their perceived worry of my nation — which isn’t fully misplaced — simply highlights how our perceptions are all relative. We are sometimes skilled to anticipate the worst once we are fed excessive tales of a rustic which can be extra the exception than the truth.

All through all my travels, I’ve admittedly had some minor inconveniences — a pockets stolen in Chile, a bank card stolen in Mexico. I do know individuals who have been robbed at gunpoint.

However I’ve additionally had 4 bicycles stolen within the U.S. Our automobiles typically get damaged into and rifled by when parked at dwelling on my Midtown Santa Cruz avenue. Once I was younger, I witnessed a gang struggle rip by the Capitola Mall.

However do I believe it’s harmful to stay in Santa Cruz? No. The identical goes for these “harmful” locations overseas, like Sri Lanka.

To be honest, my level is to not discredit claims of insecurity nor devalue anybody’s experiences overseas. In fact, violence, theft and crime exist in all places.

And touring as a person undoubtedly has its advantages in comparison with girls who journey solo. I’ll by no means be capable to perceive what it’s like solo touring as a lady, however I’ve met many inspiring feminine vacationers who’ve discovered methods to get pleasure from solo adventures safely.

This doesn’t imply you’ll be able to journey overseas and dismiss frequent sense. Good decision-making and instincts go an extended method to staying trouble-free.

However my big-picture message is to not be afraid to go overseas and expertise the unknown, to not be afraid to observe your intestine and take a threat, and to not assume the worst a few overseas nation primarily based on anecdotes.

As I look again on the previous 16 months, it’s loopy to consider the individuals and locations world wide which have at all times existed and at the moment are a part of my private story.

All I needed to do was take the initiative and step out the door.

Evan Quarnstrom is a Santa Cruz native with an affinity for browsing, the outside, touring and finding out languages. He graduated from Harbor Excessive College in 2010 and went on to review worldwide enterprise at San Diego State College. After seven years working within the browsing trade, Evan now works as a contract author and on-line English instructor. He has been to 25 international locations and counting. His earlier piece for Lookout, on skimboarding versus browsing, appeared in January.